Jerad is into flash and bling, sounds more like your into just trying to talk to the woman and you don’t want her speechless from the get go do you ? After all what is a woman to say to a man that gives her jewelry ? I am 39 and it would make me feel like he was trying to buy my affection and that and everything else I have are not for sale. An honest , hey i have been wanting to talk to you but i am new to dating and would like to invite you coffee , tea or even a soda ( lunch /dinner) what ever you wish . Only then will she be focused on you and not your intentions . Woman past the age of 35 are looking for a few things ,friendship, safety , and love . Or there are the bitter ones that have put all that aside and only want the cash/prizes what type of woman do you wish to attract?

I also will see the 50 mark in a few weeks. Just to let you know I do have some experience in this. I think you may be coming on a little strong for a meeting of the first time. I don’t know if you been talking to her on line for awhile or know her through work or some other activity. But what I like to do is start off with a small keep sake. What dose she like? A small nick nack of a collection or favorite sports team, maybe a figurine of the kind of dog she has. It says you were thinking of her when she wasn’t around. That says every bit as much as Jerad, with out the price tag. Save jarad for her birthday.

Don’t do it man. Broads would just think you were desperate. You wanna buy something for a girl, take her out and buy her dinner. Buy her a Vodka Collins. Buy her a dozen roses. Dont buy her jewelry!

Besides, those Jared commercials are terrible!

thats too forward. first of all talk to her and get to know her.

Jewelry is too forward. Find an excuse to talk to her and ask her for coffee.

that would be really forward… just get a rose or something.